Rapper Queen Pen is singin' the blues...

Is This What U Put Up With When The Checks Stop Comin' In??

Eurweb.com has reported rapper Queen Pen (Lynise Walters) has been beaten by her bf (who's on the run at the time of this post) in FRONT of her children.
No, it's not cool to be beaten behind kids' backs either...my point is the trauma these kids have experienced witnessing this abuse 1st hand.
KENDALL WICKER also broke her grammy award.


I'm not sure which road to take...be pissed off at this bully for punching her in the face so bad 3 mos that she needed oral surgery, trashing her apt, throwing a brick thru her car's windshield and threatening to kill her (I'd say he'll probably make good on this threat if he's not caught) or be PISSED AT QUEEN PEN for staying in such a relationship...esp after blowing her grill out to the point of surgery???


What is it goin to take for women to get a grip, and get outta there by any means necessary??? I don't care if its baby daddy, husband, first love, college sweetheart ...if he's WHOOPIN' ur behind, trust...the feelin's not mutual towards you.
My son lives by this saying:
'I'd rather die like a man, than live like a coward'

I agree. I'd rather die doing what's best for my children than live in fear doing nothing. Is it ez? No. but it is possible.

Queen Pen need to get it 2gether, and rescue those children before the next incident ends no so nicely.
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To Queen Pen and other victims of domestic violence:
If you have chosen to live and not die please call
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)

or for online users go to
National Domestic Violence website


Our thoughts & prayers go out to Queen Pen and her family.

Come See What's Poppin'at Bria's Own Words, my OTHER blog!

Dr.Jan (literally) Strikes Again!

BEWARE OF DR. JAN-DON'T LET THE SMOOTH TASTE FOOL YOU!!

What is it with brotha-man??
I've heard of doctors having a "god complex" but goodness
God never used and abused ANYONE.
Now his ex-wife claims, well, I shouldn't say "claim"
because a judge granted her a restraining order (how many does this makes??) against this cruel and unusual doc with the horrific bedside manner, based on those "claims"! Based on her words-he choked her almost to the point of blacking out, threw her on the bed, and major control issues (perfect recipe for an abuser)-in addition to other links I posted yesterday, this doctor needs to SEE A DOC, STAT!

Hmmm...they usually exhibit suspect behaviors before marriage that are usually overlooked until they're cracked upside the head with some noonchucks. But I digress.

sidebar: Personally, I believe in nipping things in the bud--if the joker is tripping about your clothes, family, or friends early on..cut the rascal loose-
Cut him loose like a tag that's irritating the crap out of you in the back of your clothes, a stray hair, or when too much of a bag is left and the contents is at the bottom (ex., Lay's Chips)!
Cut him loose...you're not qualified, certified, nor bonified to treat a crackpot...and if you're a mental health care professional and you're with a crackpot--then you're a crackpot too!

Back to Jan Adams:

What is really going on??
This lunatic attacked his wife during Thanksgiving with her family, friends and child in the house!!
And, you know you have a problem when YOUR ANGER MANAGEMENT COUNSELOR FIRES YOU!!
read court documents
restraining order request

Girly is no fool, ok??
She straight up filed for divorce 2 days after the restraining order.
I feel you Susie!

If you or someone you know and love is being abused...DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!
Make the call. You cannot rationalize or justify abuse away!
ABUSE IS NEVER, EVER, EVER EVER, EVER OK.
GET HELP IMMEDIATELY!

You don't need money...just call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at
1.800.799. SAFE (7233)
or visit online at http://www.ndvh.org/

The cycle of abuse can be stopped by you.