Showing posts with label holiday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holiday. Show all posts

Sunday, December 16, 2007

JUST WATCH THE VIDEO!!!

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Anyone who is able to spell their first & last name, knows it takes a special
person to be able to sing Jennifer
Holiday's
"And I'm Telling You"
-But what about if you're a child?
What about TWO children?

Fam, allow me to introduce to you

Bianca Ryan & Charice Pempengco
Two young teens approx 13 & 14yrs old, respectively.

Bianca is American and Charice is from the Phillipines.

Note: pay attention to the response from the audience when Charice performs, and somewhere in Charice's family is a soul sista or brotha!
Watch her neck, and the microphone!! ;)




Thursday, November 22, 2007

This Is The Day That The Lord Has Made, We Will Rejoice, and Be Glad In It!!

In my immediate household, Thanksgiving is not a holiday.
On the daily my children and I do a "Thanks" check:
"Mama, did you thank God today?"
"Hey guys, did you thank your Daddy today?"
My daughter 'Nesa, will shout "THANK U, JESUS!" out loud, because she knows what we've been thru and where we've come from.

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  • I'm thankful that I'm no longer that controlling (out of fear) insecure woman, who abused verbally/physically when things didn't go MY WAY. (that's why i comment strongly on abuse...they're scared control freaks!)
  • I'm thankful that after all of the HELL I put my mom through (due to NO SELF-ESTEEM) my mom not only talks to me, but has forgiven me.

  • My Father, saw me living a life of perversion (homosexuality, among other things) and sent an angel to minister TO ME, and not my sin. She NEVER judge me. She had not SENTENCED ME TO HELL, as other Christians that preceded her. I remember telling her, "people told me I was going to hell, but they never told me how I could go to heaven."
  • He took me from being a drinking, smoking, violent STRIPPER (hustling brothers out of their money) and placed me in a major telecommunications company-the salary I make is equivalent to those with college degrees. I'm WORKING on my degree now. I was so real, I told the interviewer I worked in a strip club, and she considered that "public relations/sales!" Look at God!
  • I NOW know my worth. I'm priceless and therefore when Mooky, Pooky and Ray-Ray come along, I don't succumb to their wiles. I am NOT willing to sacrifice my children, nor myself in the name of dysfunction, loneliness, or because I don't feel complete. My Lord God, has filled the voids that (in the past) lead me to make unpalatable decisions. I take myself to the movies, out to dinner, on trips. Call me Loreal honey, cuz I'm worth it!
  • Today, the boldness that I embarrassed God with in the world, is now employed to speak out against hurts administered in the church, BY THE CHURCH! I'm serious...I have ruffled serious feathers in the church. Yes, we're supposed to pray and forgive but we can also go to those we have alt with and let them know what's really going on. Read Matthew 18:15, “Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone."
  • My mind is restored. In my early 20's, my family life was in a state of disrepair. In my mind it was a hopeless situation and I felt soooooo alone. I remember writing a 4-page letter (front/back) *you all know i'm long-winded* it was my farewell to the world. You know what changed my mind? I couldn't come up with an explanation that would justify my suicide to my kids. I told them so many times in the letter, it wasn't their fault, and I loved them, but they did not believe me. I saw their future as angry, hurt, locked up in prison cuz their mom was not around...missing proms, 1st loves etc.
By the grace of my Daddy, I'm still here!
Has it been a piece of cake? of course not, I thought of turning in my "Body of Christ" membership card on many occasions...but yet, I press on.




Happy Thanksgiving to:
my blog-mama: Lynn,
blog-sis: AJ,
blog-bro:Ray
blog-hubby: Brian,
blog-aunties: Rosemarie, Regina
blog-cousins and n'em: Hicktown Press and blog-mama's husband-coworkers (she knows what I mean!)
blog-twin: One Man (dang can I know my twin's name??? lol)
my blog-sorors: "Colored Girls who've considered...",
blog-spiritual warriors: Phil, IC, Melvin (I have your backs!)
blog-soul sista:Invisible Woman
blog-gentle spirit: Marcus
blog- militant souljas: DB & Yobachi
blog-sista neo soul: Thembi
blog-shero:DeDe Hunt,spoken-word artist Dede's Myspace page, a must see
LQQKY LQQs (regular visitors who chill,but don't post):
thanks for your support!
blog- media sources: CNN, MSNBC, TMZ, Yahoo News, AOL News, Atlanta Journal,
Eurweb, & Black America


and most of all, I'm thankful 4 my jr. souljas in training who's just as real as me, their mama, and keeps me grounded!:

Nesa 19 (myspace is her platform) & Tony 16
They are my motivation. When they want info on a story or current event, I tell them to go to my blog, read it, and comment.

To those I missed, don't take it personal...do you know how many blogs I visit? lol
here's a place for you:
my-blog ____________: (your name goes here)

And on that note, I leave you this:


Glitter Graphics - GlitterLive.com

***Please don't forget to educate anyone with a pulse, about the plight of the black woman, esp. Mother Sara Baartman's place in history!***


Happy Holidays, Fam!







Friday, November 16, 2007

Said it Once...I'm Saying It Again...

Money Sense: Avoid Holiday Debt
Make a list and check it twice


October 18, 2007--Each year, too many of us spend the first 11 months of the year boosting our savings, eliminating debt, and improving our credit scores—only to blow it all in an orgy of mindless holiday spending at the end of the year—leaving us in a deeper financial hole each year, and depressed and discouraged about our ability to ever break the cycle and get ahead.

There's no getting around it—holiday overspending is a major poverty trap, one that ensnares millions of Americans each year. And despite a national credit crunch and housing recession, the financially destructive holiday "tradition" looks like it will continue in 2007, according to the Wealth in America Report, CNBC's quarterly survey of Americans about their spending habits and plans. According to their survey of more than 800 people, Americans plan to spend an average of $839 on Christmas gifts—17% more than spending planned for last year's holiday season.

That's why, every October, I recommend strategies designed to keep the BLACK ENTERPRISE and Doug Banks Morning Show families from overspending and undermining their progress toward wealth building goals. If you don’t want to suffer from a holiday debt hangover in 2008, take the following steps now:

* Make a list and check it twice (at least). If you shop with a written list you will spend less money and make fewer impulse purchases. This is true for regular grocery shopping and goes triple for holiday shopping, which is fraught with impulsive and emotional spending. Make a list of everybody you plan to buy a gift for, along with a dollar amount for how much you plan to spend on each person, and add up the total. When you get up off of the floor, you will cut some people off of your gift list (a holiday card will do), budget for fewer and/or less expensive gifts, or all of the above. Either way, you’ll make your spending decisions long before you set foot into a mall and get caught up in the emotional chaos of holiday shopping. Refuse to do any shopping without referring to your list—and do not leave the list at home. Even if you don’t follow it to the letter, you will still spend far less than you would if you hadn’t prepared a written budget for your shopping in advance.

* Lock up the credit cards. Resolve to use only cash to pay for holiday gifts, and you will be forced to stick to a budget and think twice about every purchase. Best of all, even if you overspend and are forced to eat holiday leftovers for breakfast, lunch, and dinner for the month of January, at least you won't face a mountain of high-interest credit card debt.


For more ideas on how to avoid overspending during the holidays, as well as on how to get your finances back on track if you lose control, read Holiday Debt Hangover.

Also read, Avoiding Holiday Debt, which includes downloadable holiday budgeting worksheets.

Monday, November 12, 2007

One Nation Under God? Not Yet.


It's Veterans' Day

...I forgot it was a holiday. Since I don't work at the post office, bank or library-I had to show up at work as expected, making it feel like any other work day. But it's not.


There are some Americans who enjoy freedoms such as:

walking down the street without police getting called,

Going to the store without being followed

DWM (Driving While Majority)

Not being accused of false crimes, or falsely imprisoned

Not tried in courts around the country unfairly

Noose-free working, educational environments

No red-lining, insurance gouging...well,you get my drift.


For the rest of us--we survive.

In honor of the men and women, who gave, given or are giving their lives for U.S.A. via the U.S. military

we say "Thank You for your sacrice."



Friday, October 26, 2007

$$$ Freedom Friday $$$

Avoid falling into the same holiday spending trap:

Money Sense: Avoid Holiday Debt
Make a list and check it twice
source

October 18, 2007--Each year, too many of us spend the first 11 months of the year boosting our savings, eliminating debt, and improving our credit scores—only to blow it all in an orgy of mindless holiday spending at the end of the year—leaving us in a deeper financial hole each year, and depressed and discouraged about our ability to ever break the cycle and get ahead.

There's no getting around it—holiday overspending is a major poverty trap, one that ensnares millions of Americans each year. And despite a national credit crunch and housing recession, the financially destructive holiday "tradition" looks like it will continue in 2007, according to the Wealth in America Report, CNBC's quarterly survey of Americans about their spending habits and plans. According to their survey of more than 800 people, Americans plan to spend an average of $839 on Christmas gifts—17% more than spending planned for last year's holiday season.

That's why, every October, I recommend strategies designed to keep the BLACK ENTERPRISE and Doug Banks Morning Show families from overspending and undermining their progress toward wealth building goals. If you don’t want to suffer from a holiday debt hangover in 2008, take the following steps now:


Make a list and check it twice (at least). If you shop with a written list you will spend less money and make fewer impulse purchases. This is true for regular grocery shopping and goes triple for holiday shopping, which is fraught with impulsive and emotional spending. Make a list of everybody you plan to buy a gift for, along with a dollar amount for how much you plan to spend on each person, and add up the total. When you get up off of the floor, you will cut some people off of your gift list (a holiday card will do), budget for fewer and/or less expensive gifts, or all of the above. Either way, you’ll make your spending decisions long before you set foot into a mall and get caught up in the emotional chaos of holiday shopping. Refuse to do any shopping without referring to your list—and do not leave the list at home. Even if you don’t follow it to the letter, you will still spend far less than you would if you hadn’t prepared a written budget for your shopping in advance.


Lock up the credit cards. Resolve to use only cash to pay for holiday gifts, and you will be forced to stick to a budget and think twice about every purchase. Best of all, even if you overspend and are forced to eat holiday leftovers for breakfast, lunch, and dinner for the month of January, at least you won't face a mountain of high-interest credit card debt.

For more ideas on how to avoid overspending during the holidays, as well as on how to get your finances back on track if you lose control, read Holiday Debt Hangover.