Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Saturday, October 04, 2008

My Kid Is Growing Up...

My son, Tony (17)


Ok, I'm up very early.  I've been up for two hours now...which is not custom for me on the weekend.

I'm up cuz I'm in charge of games for my godbaby's (who's in utero) shower.

Her impending arrival has made me think about my youngest child who is growing up quickly.

Tony is now 17, but when he was born he was sooooo colicky.

NOBODY wanted to keep him.

When he grew out of that phase...he was the most gentle child I've ever come across.

He literally would wake up and smile at you.

Not just as a baby, but I'm talking at 3, 4yrs of age-you'd wake him up and he'd just smile.

Where does the time go?


When he turned 14 he went thru his pubescent stage that included a terrible bout with acne, which lead to the search for the best acne treatment...but I promised him his skin was due to puberty.

Mother was right.

Then his voice changed

Hair was everywhere...his hair grows in a pattern that if he didn't shave you'd only see his nose/eyes/lips...he's extremely hairy.

Now...he has a girlfriend. 

sigh

 I know he's growing up, I just wish I didn't have to see it. lol

Well let him grow up...Raven'll be here to keep her fairygod mother company in about 3 weeks!!


check out Bria's Own Words


And on that note...



Thursday, May 08, 2008

Please Read/Comment "Is Anything Serious: My Logic To Life"

WHO SAYS NOTHING GOOD COMES OUTTA DETROIT?!

Today, I'm going to post about a young man who's made an impact for the positive in my life. He's never met me, doesn't know my name. But I'll always be indebted to him for speaking what God has put in his heart.
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You know how it is, you're blessed with health, a roof over your head, friends, kids not in jail, 2 good hair-days in a row...and yet you're still complaining??
Don't even try it! I know I'm not the only one! lol


Well, while yakking w/ my co-worker in her cubicle I noticed a poem that was posted on her wall.
I read it.
And was instantly convicted.

LORD:

I'm Sorry Cartoon
PHOTO: source

Stunned that these words resonated so deeply within, I asked if I could copy this poem. She said of course. I then inquired of the author, and learned it was our other co-worker's son.
SMH
This young man is 19!
So without further ado, I'm going to post this poem...and I hope his simple logic touches you, just as it has me.
IMHO, I believe he should have called it, "a big ta-do about NOTHIN!!" lol

Is Anything Serious: My Logic To Life

Leering over my glasses, I look
Wow, you're angry and that's all it took?
Man I don't know why you take this stuff to heart
Me? I prefer to look at it as art.
See, some art you can understand at a glance
And some is as complex as learning a Mongolian dance.
Now, with things I don't understand...I don't fret.
And if you do, you'll just end up a wreck.
This thing called life, now here's a fact:
You only got ONE, now how 'bout that?
Most issues in life don't call for tears
Nor screamin' or hollerin,' not even childish fears.
Worries and worries will make you sick.
And with just one life, now who can risk?
The next time you find yourself riled up remember this:
Sit back and shake off your deliriousness
And ask yourself: Is ANY of this serious??
-Charlie
©
4.22.08 (4:28.m.)

Now that Charlie has cracked my face 6x's, I am not only more careful about my ingratitude, but I'm also proud of him for sharing his gift with the world, eventhough he's a young, black, male, (from) Detroit.
I don't care what the statistics say about Detroit...there's greatness awaiting discovery there!

Charlie's proof that you can- in your youth keep it real without vulgarity, profanity, video hoes, athletic scholarship, spinning rims, bling-bling, a spot on MTV Cribs, and yet STILL CHANGE THE WORLD!!

CHARLIE...YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION!!



Come See What's Poppin'at Bria's Own Words, my OTHER blog!

Monday, April 21, 2008

Wednesday, February 06, 2008

Maybe Megan Will Get Justice After All...

This article klept'd from AJ's blog.

Hate-Crime Count in W.Va. Torture Case AP


(megan's mom, megan )
(megan after b'ng rescued, and mom)
(megan's mom, megan l-r)
(perverts, b'low)
(don't count megan out just yet!)
CHARLESTON, W.Va. (AP) — One of several white people charged in the suspected kidnapping, torture and sexual assault of a black woman has been indicted on a hate crime count, and two others have entered guilty pleas in the case.

Six people arrested after Megan Williams was rescued in September had been charged with counts that carry maximum life sentences, but until Tuesday's indictments no one had been charged with a hate crime. The issue has been a sore point among many of Williams' supporters.

Karen Burton, 46, of Chapmanville, was indicted Tuesday on charges of committing a hate crime, kidnapping and malicious wounding. Three others were indicted on counts including kidnapping, sexual assault and conspiracy.

Prosecutors say Williams, 20, was held captive for days at a trailer in Big Creek, where she was forced to eat animal feces, sexually assaulted and stabbed. She was rescued Sept. 8 after an anonymous caller alerted Logan County sheriff's deputies.

Logan County prosecutor Brian Abraham said Burton stabbed Williams in the ankle while saying, "This is what we do to n------ down here."

Karen Burton was "a little surprised" by the hate crime charge but was relieved that an earlier sexual assault count was not included in the indictment, said her attorney, Betty Gregory.

"She didn't want her children to think anything like that about her," Gregory said.

While noting that Burton has two biracial grandchildren in North Carolina whom "she dearly loves," Gregory said part of Burton's defense will be that she "has a significant history of child abuse from her own childhood."

Two other defendants — Burton's daughter, 23-year-old Alisha Burton, and 27-year-old George A. Messer — each pleaded guilty Friday and have agreed to testify against the others.

Messer and Alisha Burton, both of Chapmanville, were each sentenced to concurrent prison terms of 10 years for kidnapping and two to 10 years for assault during the commission of a felony, Abraham said. Williams and her family were consulted before plea deals were offered, he said.

The state hate crime count against Karen Burton is the first one legal scholars can remember being prosecuted in West Virginia.

"This one particular charge in this one particular case is winnable, and you can send the message that this type of behavior is not going to be tolerated," said West Virginia University sociology professor Jim Nolan, who teaches a course on hate crimes.

The Rev. Al Sharpton and groups including Washington, D.C.-based Black Lawyers for Justice had pushed for hate-crime charges. Sharpton, who led a hate crimes rally in Charleston in December, said Wednesday that it was good one such charge was filed but added that there should have been more.

"They all engaged in hate crimes because they aided and abetted a hate crime," Sharpton said.

Abraham said other defendants used the same slur Karen Burton did, but the fact that Burton used it while stabbing Williams made her act more clearly a hate crime.

"The distinction was that we think that there was an affirmative statement as to Karen Burton's motivation when she allegedly said that to Megan Williams," Abraham said.

Abraham previously had refrained from filing hate-crime charges, saying they would be difficult because there was a pre-existing relationship. Williams filed domestic assault charges against one of the defendants, Bobby Brewster, in July.

Abraham also had noted that the 10-year maximum prison sentence for a hate crime conviction was low compared with the life term a kidnapping conviction could bring.

Indicted on felony counts with Karen Burton and Brewster were Danny Combs and Brewster's mother, Frankie Brewster. Another man not previously arrested was indicted Tuesday on a misdemeanor battery charge.

The defendants have denied the charges. Aside from Gregory, their lawyers did not immediately return phone calls on Wednesday.

The Associated Press generally does not identify suspected victims of sexual assault, but Williams and her mother, Carmen, agreed to release her name. Carmen Williams has said she wanted people to know what her daughter endured.

Megan Williams has taped a segment of Montel Williams' talk show that is to be broadcast Thursday.

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I'm not goin to comment too much on this story, bcuz focusing on it will make me want to take it out on all of the wonderful non-black people I know. And I would never want to hurt or offend my co-workers, blog family, family members etc in that way. Also, I just don't have the anger, time nor the energy to be prejudiced (anymore). I must remember these people are perverts who happen to be white. Not perverts becuz they're white.

I pray that Megan (and her mom) is able to bounce back 100%, God is able-and I hope the suspects are tried in court and reap what they have sown-and one day they'll understand the detriment of their acts and become remorseful and repentant. No person deserves to be treated as Megan (or any other crime, torture victim) have.

God bless.


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Thursday, January 17, 2008

Mary J to Appear on One Life To Live...

Mary J. Blige to sing on ABC soap opera


NEW YORK - Mary J. Blige is returning to "One Life to Live."

The Grammy-winning singer taped another appearance Thursday on the ABC soap opera. She last visited the fictional town of Llanview in July 2006 to perform hits from her multiplatinum album "The Breakthrough."

For her second cameo, she'll be a surprise guest at a Sweet Sixteen birthday party for Starr Manning (played by Kristen Alderson), ABC said. The episodes are set to air Feb. 15 and Feb. 18.

Accompanied by her band, Blige, 37, will sing "Just Fine," the Grammy-nominated single from her new album, "Growing Pains," as well another track called "Hurt Again."

"It's absolutely amazing to be integrated into a soap opera I've watched since I was a little girl," Blige said in a statement. "I am beyond thrilled to be welcomed back again."

Nelly Furtado, Chris Botti, Erykah Badu, Timbaland and Keri Hilson have also performed on the show. source

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Thank goodness for Youtube!
I'm not a soap opera fan (anymore), so I won't watch her performance on One Life To Live-but I know some stranger will look out for me and upload it to Youtube.
She's definitely making her rounds and I ain't mad at her.
However, I WILL be mad at her if I found out she had something to do with
steroids.
Not that Mary J, cares.
But I know Mary J wouldn't dare dabble in that mess.
Go 'head, Mary.


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Tuesday, January 01, 2008

In 2008, I promise to...

Dance More...


Eat more spiritual food...
Reach out to the youth (more)...
Sing more...

Spend money wiser...

Embrace my family ( uh-oh)...Stop hiding...
LOVE the big girl that I am (and what?!) :)...

Praise HIM, regardless of how I feel...
Pray more often (forgive me, Father)...
Add 50 pgs to my book-in-progress (have 100 pgs now!)...

Fam, what are your aspirations for 2008?


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Sunday, November 25, 2007

On Tomorrow's Episode of "Shysters & Perverts in Jesus' Name," Paula White: Will She Acknowledge Christ??

SmileyCentral.comOn the next episode of " Shysters & Perverts in Jesus' Name"...


Pastor and/or Life Coach-is that possible??



Due to the regurgitated vomit (i.e., lies, distortions & untruths) that seems to be shared among pastors... I like many other Christians who seek truth and will not accept heresy as gospel, am unlikely to step into an edifice. And if I do, it won't be that of a Pulpit-Pimp. Therefore,I seek God in my private time, listen to church sermons (not those found on CableTV ) and learn more about the Lord utilizing various online resources. *check outmy blogroll* Thanks Phil! and Thanks Ann!

Having said that when I visited the church called The Old Black Church , don't let the name fool you...this church is for errybody, I read the "bulletin announcement" stating that Paula will be on CNN's Larry King Live tomorrow, November 26, 2007, 9pm EST. If you desire you can send Paula an email via CNN and there's a chance yours may get read: send Paula an email

Because Larry isn't Christian (he's Jewish) he truly doesn't understand the issue between Paula and her cohorts and the church. So I know he will not throw questions at her that can be construed as "offensive" or hard-hitting, unlike my favorite Christian radio talk-show host, Detroit's own Paul Edwards. Paul interviewed her and asked how is it possible two Christians are unable to work out their marriage? And out of leftfield Paula used a distraction tactic in order to take the focus of her and her web of lies. Paula retorted, the least Paul could've done was ask about her dying "daughter." She said her daughter has 3, 4 stage cancer and is dying...truth is , Paul Edwards wasn't aware of the young lady's illness, it's Randy's daughter and if she's concerned about the young lady--why's Paula doing this book tour?? Remember, she'll be on Larry King tomorrow. Whatchoo talkin' 'bout Paula?!

Paula can not justify the path she has now chosen. As most false teachers can't when they're confronted by someone anchored in the Word.

How to Identify False Teachers, Profits,Pastors, etc
from The Foolish Galatian Blog via Independent Conservative
characteristics of shysters in the church
We must work out our "own salvation with fear and trembling"
Phil 2:12b, and stop leaving it up to these false teachers to do it!

Thursday, October 04, 2007

Life: It's A Beautiful Thing





I went to an awesome website called "GOD TUBE,"
(I know hat you're thinking)
and it's a site created for people who love the Lord to upload their videos.
After trying to decide which video to post, I watched the last video and I was so moved by its poignancy, that I knew I had to post it.
Note: The video is about abortion, and life. Abortion is murder and its wrong but it is also A FORGIVABLE. I ought to know as I had an abortion when I was 20 years old. I was freed from the guilt 4 yrs ago. I almost committed suicide because of it. My childen 19 & 16 are aware of their brother "Caleb" who is in heaven waiting for us. My daughter has another lil' brother, and my son has a big brother that he'll get to see. Women do not go through this alone, the father's depression, feelings, guilt etc must also be acknowledged, for he too is experience deprivation. Confess and repent your sins, and ask God to forgive and heal you. He did it for me and He'll do it for you.
You Betta recognize-God came to set the captives free. It's time for your liberation. God bless you and I'm proud of you.
Ivent

Tuesday, October 02, 2007

In Case You Need a Reason to Stay Saved, Read God's Daily Verse...


"For God so greatly loved and dearly prized the world that He [even] gave up His only begotten (unique) Son, so that whoever believes in (trusts in, clings to, relies on) Him shall not perish (come to destruction, be lost) but have eternal (everlasting) life. " John 3:16 (Amplified Bible)
Father, thank you for the reminder and for your Son's sacrifice on the cross!!
You better recognize-Christ's act has NEVER been duplicated!! He is Risen!
Ivent

There Is Life After Death...There's Just the issue of what will your address be...


I love You Tube!
You Tube gives you a platform to speak...basically it allows you to be your own DJ, VJ, anchor person etc, and it doesn't cost a dime!
Having said that, i watched a thought provoking video on You Tube, and i had to share it.
Which road are you walking down-wide or narrow??
If you you now aren't walking according to His Will, CONFESS YOUR SINS-tell God, and watch How he moves in your life! (can you handle it??)
Love you,
Ivent

Friday, September 28, 2007

How Timely is this Daily Verse??


Think about Mychal Bell, and yourself when you're going through trials and tribulations. AND YES, that is part of being a Christian! This causes us to depend on Christ, not ourself. Marinate and apply this scripture in your life. TGIF!!




"For we do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about the affliction and oppressing distress which befell us in [the province of] Asia, how we were so utterly and unbearably weighed down and crushed that we despaired even of life [itself]. Indeed, we felt within ourselves that we had received the [very] sentence of death, but that was to keep us from trusting in and depending on ourselves instead of on God Who raises the dead. "
2 Corinthians 1:8-9 (Amplified Bible)
source: Christ Notes
You betta recognize the only one who can deliver you- Christ!
Ivent